With
so many options available, planning a funeral can lead you to make
some very difficult choices. The following information outlines
the funeral process, in order to present these planning options
more clearly.
First
Call: At the time of death, it is important to call the
funeral home as soon as possible. We are here for you 24 hours a
day, every day of the year. Once the funeral home has been notified,
we can send someone to the place of death immediately, whether it
be at your home, a hospital, nursing home, etc. We will then transfer
the deceased back to the funeral home.
Preparation:
Depending on the type of service you have, embalming may
not be necessary. The process of embalming is not required by law
in New York State. However, if you choose to have an open casket
visitation or some type of public viewing, it is our funeral home
policy that the decedent be embalmed.
Arrangements: Funeral arrangements should be made
as soon as it is convenient for the family. At the arrangement conference,
you will have to answer certain statistical and biographical questions
regarding the deceased. This is also the time when certain merchandise
is selected, such as the casket, vault, urn, prayer cards, acknowledgement
cards, etc. You may bring a recent picture of the deceased, as well
as his/her clothing with you. After you have finished making arrangements,
the funeral director then begins the process of calling the appropriate
clergy, cemetery, or crematory contacts, writes the obituary, contacts
the decedent’s attending physician to have the death certificate
signed, files the death certificate, sets up and confirms date and
time for music/hymns, military honors, fraternal services, to name
just a few. We will take care of everything for you, including notifying
Social Security and filing for Veterans Benefits.
Calling
Hours / Visitation: The tradition of viewing the deceased
can be traced back to the beginning of time. You can choose to have
calling hours at whatever time you prefer, and however many sessions
you would like. Many people prefer the traditional one day of 2-4
& 7-9. However, more recently, others have opted to have one
or two hours of visitation immediately preceding the funeral service.
The Funeral Service: Each of our funeral directors
has had experience and has been educated in many different funeral
traditions and customs. We can provide services to families of any
faith, creed, religion, or non-religious background. You may choose
to hold the funeral at your own place of worship, or you can have
a service in the funeral home itself, conducted by the clergy person
of your choice. Even if your loved one was not associated with any
particular church, we can assist you with finding an appropriate
clergyman.
Final Disposition: You may plan to have your loved
one buried, cremated, entombed, or any other means of final disposition.
We will arrange everything for you, from the opening of the grave
to contacting a clergy person for a final commendation service.
Shipping: Families are sometimes faced with making
service arrangements for someone who has died away from home. When
a deceased loved one needs to be returned home, whether that may
be anywhere in the United States or a foreign country, we have the
experience necessary to make all contacts with the airlines, consulate/embassy
offices, and the receiving funeral establishment.